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When we listen to others, we are acknowledging they are on the same level [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and are equally important to us.
Boys imitate the modeling of other men and she says, "..boys - with exceptions of course - soon develop the minimalist style mothers, girlfriends and wives despair of."
So when it comes to relationship communication problems [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is paramount men demonstrate how the proper structure is in place. What better way of doing this than not listening or taking any notice of women.
Adele Horin, a columnist in the Sydney Morning Herald, writes about relationship communication problems. She says there is a "..shortage of men that women can relate to. The crisis in male-female conversation cries out for more attention. Relationships are being destroyed, or aborted at first
She goes on "Say a woman has found a man... Before long she has detected the fatal flaw. 'He just doesn't listen. He won't talk to me.' She thinks it is an individual problem, and that a more sympathetic conversational mate can be found..But this conversational crisis is bigger than any individual. It is gender-wide. And it starts young."
It is not my intention to expand on this here, but simply to state it as a fact. I am now going to show how this has impacted males to bring about the conversational crisis.
I imagine a lot of men reading the last sentence would become very defensive about that statement and think it is another example of male bashing.
Can you imagine the relationship communication problems experienced with someone like this man. I think he is so extreme and when I first read it I thought he might have been saying all this with his tongue in his cheek, but I don't think so. I think he is serious.
On the other hand there is every chance many women reading it would identify with what is said and wholeheartedly agree with the statement.
Relationship communication problems are very common. There are a number of ways we can look at what these basic relationship problems are all about.
One of the first things to say is it seems men are primarily responsible for the issues associated with marital and relationship problems to do with communication.
I've got some idea about how this has all come about and I intend to go ahead and explain this and at the same time show how this has created relationship communication problems.
It's like a competition, it is win/lose. If I'm not in charge or on a higher level, then she will be, and I'll be on a lower level and she'll be in charge, and it's not supposed to be like that.
If, as males, we see ourselves as superior, this places us on a higher level and women on a lower level. On the whole, men seem unable to feel equal to women: they must be superior or they are inferior.
A male reader responded to Adele's column in the letters page of the "Herald". He wrote, "..The fact is women are terrible communicators."
It is like men might as well be saying, "who do you think you are, you are not on my level, I don't have to listen to you, or acknowledge you. You don't count anyway, so what you have to say is not important."
Horin asks the question about how men are like this when she says, "Who knows how these patterns are established?"
There has been a widespread belief in the world that men are superior to women. This was the accepted view for thousands of years. Some think this is no longer the case [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], yet there is ample evidence to suggest it is still firmly in place.
Other aspects of this are, when it comes to feelings, if we see ourselves as being superior, it follows we are above all that. It's okay for you inferior lot to get caught
He added, "Women arrogantly take the stance that their way is superior, against all the evidence, and refuse to be rational, constructive and inclusive. Instead of trying to change male behavior to suit themselves - a tactic that seems to be failing - perhaps it would be better to accept their own shortcomings and work on modifying them."
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