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this because you didn't learn how to emotionally inspire yourself in the beginning of your working life way back when?
Note - retire / inspire.
If you haven't already emotionally retired, when will emotional retirement happen to you?
When you are 35, 40, 45, 50, 55, 60, 65 or - or again, has it happened, or is it happening right now?
With the cost of retirement looming and compounding by the minute, can you, your business or family afford for you to emotionally retire?
So what is emotional retirement?
We've given emotional retirement many different labels in the past. Burn out, funk, slump, unmotivated - and within the word unmotivated lays the crux of the problem.
Motivation just doesn't work. Motivation is unsustainable. Motivation only lasts for a short period of time.
I should know. I owned an Anthony Robbins Franchise from 1990 - 1995 which was #1 in North America from 1991 - 1992 for the sale of the video based Unlimited Power Weekend Seminar. The Unlimited Power Weekend Seminar was all about motivation. I honestly stood back at times and said, "how come this stuff doesn't work?"
From 1993 to date I have extensively studied Coaching, Counseling, Emotional Release Work, Family Systems Theory and Inner Child Work to deepen my understanding to gain the answers and develop a system to create a Scientific Approach to sustainable motivation.
And guess what, motivation cannot be sustained.
Here is why.
Let's look at the source of the word motivation in the dictionary.
"Motive" the sense of need, fear, etc. - Webster's Dictionary.
Why on earth would you want to be motivated by a need or fear?
For if you take action based upon the avoidance of a need or a fear you may very well get the results and in the end, you will still be haunted by the need and the fear. And as soon as you meet the short term need or fear [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], poof, your motivation went away until the next time you are in need or fear. Not a happy existence.
Need
A need cannot be met by something outside of the self and examples are: by a person, place, possession, position etc. A simple example is how many times have you heard a person say, "I'll be happy when I make the million dollar level"
One of the most common unmet needs is "recognition".
If you have an unmet need, the unmet need is the foundation for a series of limiting beliefs and emotions.
The unmet need of recognition is what leads to your emotional retirement.
Here is why.
The unmet need of recognition is something that was left over from your childhood development.
It is a dysfunctional source of motivation for you to give and give and give your time and energy to people with the belief that they will recognize you for the great work that you are doing to complete the piece of childhood development. The only challenge is again, an unmet need cannot be met by a person, place, possession, position, etc.
At the same time [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as you struggle to get your unmet need of recognition met you carry limiting beliefs of "It doesn't matter what I do, people don't appreciate it, they just seem to take and take and take."
There is enough quantum physics theory around today that I don't have to go into the scientific explanation for you to agree with me that;
Thoughts are real forces (John Kehoe - Mind Power) You attract what you think about You are what you believe
The unmet need coupled with the limiting beliefs leaves you with an array of emotions that include; sadness, anger, disappointment, rejection etc.
So at the end of the day, you say to yourself; "Why bother, what is the use?". "It doesn't matter what I do, people don't appreciate it, and they just seem to take and take and take." And you give up.
Worse yet [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are feeling bitter and angry bec
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