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Early in the relationship, avoid asking him resume questions. Look out for questions like, "How much do you make?" "Did you go to college?" "Where?" "Were you ever married" "For how long?" "What do your parents do for a living?" These questions suggest that you are sizing him up and deciding if he is a good risk as a potential husband. Remember,Cheap Air Jordan Shoes, even if he turns out to be a billionaire, he needs to know that you liked him before you knew that fact.
While you, as a woman, think of a new relationship as changing your life, your man thinks only of preservation. You may look forward to buying a new house, having kids, changing jobs, taking joint vacations. Meanwhile,Jordan 11s, he is determined to keep his old routines and change as little as he can. To him, sameness means security. If you try to change his life too fast, he will feel that his masculinity will be the next thing to go. He will already feel threatened. Make small gestures to show him that you aren't taking over his life a
2. Make your man feel special by showing him that you love him for himself alone.
Here are 10 tips for getting your man to commit:
He needs to know that it's safe to tell you more. And the more he tells you, the more committed he will become. For instance, suppose he tells you that he feels bad about not being a college graduate. Just listen and make clear that you love him as much as if he had a Ph.D from Harvard. If he tells you that he's worried about losing his job, just listen and make clear that you will love him just as much if he does. The time for advice may come later, when he asks for it -- if he ever does. But right now, advice is not what he needs. He needs you.
4. Give your man the sense that he can keep his freedom - at least to a reasonable degree.
Ask instead what he feels about things, what he likes and dislikes. If he says he just got a big bonus, don't ask him how much it was. Talk about how exciting it must be. "Did you know it was coming?" "Did all your friends congratulate you?" Enjoy his experience with him. He'll tell you everything after a while unless he is very secretive, which would be a bad sign. You know that you don't like to be quizzed. He likes it even less. Let him know that you care about him, not about what he represents or the category he is in, and he will feel special. Keep it personal, as opposed to factual.
You've been seeing a man who loves you, whether he uses the word or not. He loves sex with you, but more than that, he loves being with you. Even so,Jordan 13 Shoes, he hasn't committed himself to you fully. Perhaps he's still vague about weekend plans, or he hasn't introduced you to his friends. Maybe he hasn't asked you to marry him, though you've been seeing each other steadily or living together for a long time. If so, he is like millions of men who cheat themselves and the woman they care about out of a life that would make you both very happy. He is obviously afraid - possibly even phobic -- about commitment. Is there anything you can do to help him take the step that will bring ultimate happiness to both of you? The answer is "yes," and the solutions are simple, easy adjustments that will cost you nothing and will end up bringing the fulfillment and commitment you've dreamed of.
If you have always loved opera, say so. If you feel like crying at a movie, cry. If you feel like laughing, laugh. Being natural will encourage him to be the same. He is special and you are special, but in different ways. Never put yourself under pressure by starting out with a lie. The message is that you are a special individual and he is one, too.
3. Try to be natural. Be yourself and don't conceal your tastes or the things you like.
If your new man says that likes rap music and rattles off some names of people you've never heard of, don't pretend that you know them and like them. You're allowed to say that you don't know anything about that kind of music.
1. Make it easy for him to confide in you by listening without giving him advice or criticizing him.
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